Jealousy and Modesty
Praised be to Allah the god of the worlds, and pray to Allah
prophet Mohammed, all his family, and companions, then:
From the charms of our
religion the taking care of nobility of characters, the
prophet-peace be upon him-said: "Verily I have been but sent to
perfect the most noble of manners." [validated by
Alabani]
And when the prophet-peace be
upon him-was sent, he confirmed the ignorance era good manners, and
canceled their bad manners, and rectified what need
rectifying.
And from the good manners of
the ignorance era: the jealousy of the man on his unmarriageable
ones, but some of them were going too far that they surpassed the
limits. Some buried their daughters' alive; fearing monstrosity.
Therefore, the legislator prohibited this, rectified and improved
the jealousy part and made it from the paths of the faith, the
prophet-peace be upon him-said: "No one more jealous than Allah"
[Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim]
And the prophet -peace and
blessings be upon him- said: "Verily Allah gets jealous and the
believer gets jealous and the jealousy of Allah is to see a
believer doing unlawful acts" [Narrated by Muslim]
And he -peace and blessings be upon him- said when the sun eclipsed: "O community of Muhammad! ByAllah, there is no-one more jealous than Allah..." [Narrated by Bukhari]
And the prophet said-peace be
upon him-" Allah likes some of the jealousy" [Classified Hasan by
Albani]
and when Saâd son of Ôbada-may Allah pleased with him-if I saw a man with my woman I would have hit him with the unfoliated part of my sword, the prophet-peace be upon him- said: "do you wonder from Saad's jealousy, I am more jealous than Saâd, And Allah is more jealous" [Narrated by Bukhari] (unfoliated: to hit him with the edge of the sword not with its side, at which the one who hits with edge intends to kill while the one who hits with the side indent disciplining)
And the companions-may Allah
pleased with them- endowed with this prophetic manner and kept on
it, its matter the same as the essentials of the faith and its
paths, so it wasn't strange that some of them were killed or kill
in order to preserve this issue. Ibn Hashem recited that a woman
from the Arabs came with some earning (what is brought to the
markets to be sold there) and she sold it in the market of Kaynokaâ
(one of the tribes of the Jewish) and she sat at a jeweler there,
and they insisted on her to show her face but she refused, so the
jeweler came to the edge of her cloth and tied it to her seat
-without her notice- so when she stood up she was exposed, so they
laughed on her, and she yielded, then a man from the Muslims leaped
on the jeweler and killed him-and he was Jewish-so the Jewish
people pressured on that Muslim and killed him, so the
prophet-peace be upon him-walked to them, and surrounded them until
they followed his judgment, so he evacuated them to Al
Sham.
In this way the ancestors
continued, and the Muslims never left or even neglect this manner
even at the week times that the Islamic nation passed by, like
while when the crusaders were occupying some of the Islamic
countries in Al Sham and their occupation continued for about two
centuries, it was a time that some may think that they are staying
until the landing of Issa the son of Mary, at this time the
historians recorded that the Muslims were scorning them and looking
to them as cuckolds, at which the one of them may be walking with
his wife in the road and she meets a friend, so he stands away to
let his wife speaks with her friend as she wants.
Some examples
of the nonfeasance of the jealousy:
-In our countries-May Allah fill it
with obedience-we are still better than the others in this issue,
although some are exceptions.
-You can see some of them in his car,
and his wife gets outs from the car and takes too long in a
conversation and he should have been with her.
-And you see one of them, his wife in
solitude with foreign men; with the driver in the car, or with the
seller in a shop, or with the physician in the clinic, or somewhere
else, and he sees nothing wrong with that, and the prophet-peace be
upon him said-"whenever a man combines with a women apart, the
devil shall be their third" [validated by Albani]
-And also the man leaves his woman or
the women in his custodianship going out with transparent,
describing, or short clothes.
-Also the getting out of the
man with his wife and his unmarriageable ones in the public crowds,
at which his women may associate with men, or she is exposed to
their regards.
-Also another example, the man
leaves his woman to travel without any of her unmarriageable
persons, the messenger of Allah-peace be upon him-said: "No man
combines with a women in solitude unless she is with one of her
unmarriageable ones, and no woman travels unless she is with one of
her unmarriageable ones. So a man stands up and said: Messenger of
Allah "my woman gets out on pilgrimage, and I was requested in so
and so of invasions, so he said: Go and pilgrimage with your
woman" [Narrated
by Muslim]
This is a militant in the sake
of Allah, the prophet-peace open him-ordered him to leave the holy
war to accompany his wife, that went in a holy travel which is
pilgrimage, and with the purist and most pious people, and even she
has already gone, the prophet-peace be upon him-said "go and
pilgrimage with your woman".
The reasons of
the proceeding:
What has been mentioned from
examples is a reality happening and seen, although the common
behavior is the preservation of jealousy. So what is the reason of
what is happening from some people in the absence of jealousy and
modesty? Now, let's speak about the rank of the modesty and its
stature in Islam.
Modesty:
The modesty is one the paths
of faith, as it came in the speech of the prophet-peace be upon
him-, so whenever his modesty decreases his faith decreases, and in
the two valid books the prophet-peace be upon him- said "The
modesty only brings good" [Bukhari and Muslim]
And in a recitation of Muslim "All the modesty is good"
and it is recited about Salman the Persian-May Allah be pleased
with him-that he said: If Allah wanted to doom someone he
takes from him the modesty, so when the modesty is taken you find
him only as an abominable disgusting one"
And the poet
said:
I swear by
Allah that there is no good in life nor the world if the modesty is
gone
As long as the
one has modesty he is good and the steam remains as long its cover
is still.
And another said:
I see the one
with no modesty nor honesty as if he is naked among the
people.
And the
slightness of the modesty at the woman has particular reasons,
like:
1-The leniency of the upbringing of
it, and habit ever remains:
If you rectify
the branches it became right, and it never soften if it is
wood.
2-The over association of woman with
the foreigners, and the over talking with them.
3-The association with people with low
modesty, or the repeating of their viewing, either resulting from
traveling abroad or seeing them in the markets and parks, or
watching them in the episodes, or something like that, because the
good and bad manners is achieved by association.
4-And it might be from the most
important reasons: the over getting out of the woman from her home,
the great and almighty Allah said: "And abide in your
houses" [al-Ahzab 33:33]
Transliteration:
Wa Qarna Fī
Buyūtikunna
And El Tabarany recited with a
good bond that the prophet-peace be upon him-said "The woman is a
private part, and if she gone out from her home the devil raises
his glance to her, and she is never nearer to her God than the
deepest part of her house" [validated by Albani] [the devil
raises his glance upon her and covet in her].
And the prophet-peace be upon him-said "Don't prevent your women
from the mosques, and their homes better for them"[validated by
Albani]
AlDomuaty the memorizing-may Allah have mercy on
him-said:" EbnKhozuma
and a group of scientists declared that her praying in home better
than the mosque, even if the mosque was the mosque of Makka or
Almadina or Jerusalem".
-And the reasonable and the
sagacious one should realize that what some of the Islamic
countries has reached from degeneration and change didn't happen in
one time, but began usually with silly begins till the situation
reaches what we see now, so pay attention.
Finally, you Muslim, verify
your testimony that Mohamed is a messenger of Allah, so that you
believe him in what he said, and obey him in what he ordered, and
don't commit what he prohibited and restrained, and don't you ever
be inconsistent with his order in the sake of your fancy or in
conformity with anyone, the great and almighty Allah said
"So let those beware
who dissent from the Prophet's order, lest fitnah strike them or a
painful punishment." [An-Nur 24:63]
Transliteration: Lā Taj`alū Du`ā'a Ar-Rasūli Baynakum Kadu`ā'i Ba`đikum Ba`đāan Qad Ya`lamu Allāhu Al-Ladhīna Yatasallalūna Minkum Liwādhāan Falyaĥdhari Al-Ladhīna Yukhālifūna `An 'Amrihi 'An Tuşībahum Fitnatun 'Aw Yuşībahum `Adhābun 'Alīmun
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