Stories for chaste ones
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Thanks are only for God and let the peace be on the last Prophet
and so:
My sister in
Islam:
These are some stories
containing lots of lessons and preachments which are talking about
two types of women:
The first
type: who stuck to her
shyness and modesty against seduction and didn't surrender to
desires, so she became a model for honor, modesty and morality and,
all the women and girls should follow this woman to learn from her
shyness and modesty.
The second
type: who collapsed in
front of the first seduction so, she sold her shyness and honor for
an hour of desire and she regretted when regret is useless, so she
became a bad model for the woman who has neither honesty nor honor
and our women and girls should take care from taking the same path
and falling in her swamp.
My shy and modest sister in
Islam, you aren't alone in the battle field but there are thousands
like you who had taken the same path and preferred modest life to
the life of desires and whoredom.
And from them, western women
who were born in a society which claims the looseness and
shamelessness (impudence) and freedom reveals civilization and
personal freedom and despite that those women faced this bitter
reality and they confronted that by strength and determination and
they refused to wear except the modest clothes and they took the
path of good believers and they bared the sarcastic and mocking
glances and all kinds of hurt and persecution.
So, become delighted my sister
and have a good hope and continue your modest fighting and stick to
your veil and your shyness.
The husband
was right:
A mean person insisted to call
on my home's phone and he wished that I would have a sinner affair
with him but I used to refuse, insult him and sometimes I hang up
the phone on his face without talking to him.
At last when he became
desperate, he wanted to ruin my marriage, he called when my husband
was at home and when my husband picked up the phone, he hang up
immediately.
The doubts began to attack my
husband and our life turned out to estrange and then to separation,
but the hardest thing on the woman is that she feels that her
husband doesn't trust her.
My husband asked one of his
faithful friends for his opinion about me and he was courageous
enough in his lying, so he told him, "we have heard a lot about
your wife's sinner relations but we didn't tell you because we
cared about your marriage and we hoped that she can return to the
right path", after that our marriage reached to be a real hell. I
went to my husband and in a tranquil moment I swore to him that I
am innocent from that and that his friend is a liar, my husband
started to doubt about what his friend had said, so he decided to
know the number of that devil by joining the service of "the caller
Id" but he didn't tell anyone and here was the surprise as this
rake was none but his friend who advised him about my case, he was
the one who was trying to violate on his home holiness, to attack
his honor, to ruin our marriage and destroy our house which we
built by love and loyalty.
The top of
Chastity:
One of the supplicants says:
"I was on a supplication trip to Bangladesh with a medical team who
established a camp to cure eye diseases, and then a respected
sheikh with his wife came to the doctor hesitatively and when the
doctor came close to the woman she started to cry and shake in
fear, so the doctor thought that she was suffering from pain and
illness and he asked her husband about that, and he replied while
trying to prevent his tears that she isn't crying from pain but she
was crying because she will be forced to uncover her face to a
foreigner, she didn't sleep last night suffering from worry and
confusion and she was blaming me a lot saying: "Do you accept that
I reveal my face?!!", and she only came here after I promised her
that God approved that in emergency cases and Allah raised above
said: "But whoever is forced [by necessity], neither desiring [it]
nor transgressing [its limit], there is no sin upon him. "
[Al-Baqara 2:173]
Transliteration:
Famani Ađţurra Ghayra Bāghin
Wa Lā `Ādin Falā 'Ithma `Alayhi
A lesson from
an American girl:
That Arabian young man arrived
to Ohaio-USA with his modest veiled wife but only few days passed
until this woman was drifted by the way of the west life and she
was amazed by the claimed western girl's freedom so, she first took
off her face cover and at last she took off her veil and she
continued by wearing the jeans and colorful shirts, so she became
Arabian by blood and western by shape.
At one day this woman entered
a mall and while she was in a shop, she saw a completely veiled
woman, so she wanted to make fun of her and contempt her sticking
to the veil in the land of freedom as they claim so, she told her
in a sarcastic way in Arabic: "A veil here, leave this
primitiveness (backwardness)", but the other woman looked at her
and she didn't reply, so she repeated this insult again and the
veiled woman didn't answer except that she said in English: "Excuse
me, but i don't know the language that you are using, I am an
American", so the Arabian woman was shocked from her wearing to the
veil, then the American Muslim woman said in a confident tone:
"Listen I am an American, I lived among freedom and shamelessness
and I know exactly what disasters had resulted from that freedom
but I thank God that he guided me to Islam and legislated veil to
me, now our bodies and souls have value after we had been a puppet
in the hands of everyone, so you must understand these words you
poor woman and watch out for yourself and don't be a bad model
(example) for Arab Muslim women", and she gave her a lot of advices
until the Arabian woman was amazed and she started to cry, near
people from her said that she spent a whole week at home and when
she went out she was wearing her modest veil proud with her
Islam.
The
consequences of tolerance:
She wasn't so determined in
replying at that human wolf, but by repeating the phone calls she
finally responded to him, but the phone calls increased between
them and as a result he asked her for a meeting and after insisting
she accepted but under one condition that the meeting shouldn't
exceed five minutes and it must be inside the car, they actually
met and that devil left her for the first time, so she felt safety
with him, so the meeting was repeated and she used to go out with
him and sit in the car beside him, and when her dad or the driver
drives her to college, she just waits and when this devil comes she
used to go out with him and she returns to the college before the
time of leaving and then she returns home, one day he took her to a
house claiming that it was his sister's house who works in the
morning, then he tricked her by giving her a drugging bill and she
didn't wake up until this devil has taken from her the most
precious thing that every girl has and she became a puppet in his
hands, this tragedy was repeated several times hoping that he can
show some mercy and marry her but how far, so after he took from
her what he needed, he just disappeared and she couldn't find him
she knew after it was too late that she was deceived but it was
after the disaster had happened and the honor was lost and the
modesty was slain.
Leave that for
the judgment day:
A man said that: "I adored a
woman from my neighborhood so I used to follow her when she went
out, so I followed her a lot and she felt that and one day, while I
was following her, she stopped, turned to me and said: "Do you need
something?", I said: "Yes", she said: "And what is that", I said:
"Your friendship", she said: "Leave that for the judgment day". He
said: "By God she made me cry and I didn't repeat that
again".
God is the greatest, how
beautiful is the modesty, how glorious is the shyness, how amazing
is the advising, how marvelous is the honor, how great is observing
God, how beautiful is the activeness and neglecting (leaving) all
the desires, yes leave that for the judgment day, it is a precious
advice but no, it is actually a way of living and I wish that our
young girls and boys could follow these amazing models instead of
following immoral people.
A girl's
tragedy:
She didn't have any idea that
the result will be like that, she was just playing away from her
parent's sight and she was convinced that no one will know about
her until the zero hour but the disaster happened, a naïve young
flower who had a happy future, while going and returning from the
school, she left her veil to go with the wind and left her face
cover to be free to show her eyes and cheeks and of course she
wasn't away from the eyes of the human wolves who were walking down
the streets waiting to capture a naïve victim, no time passed until
she found a phone number of one of them in front of her, she didn't
hesitate and picked the number, she knew him as a single young man
who was far away from his parents, he threw the trap around her
till she fell into it and seduced her by his smooth tongue, the
sinner relationship started and began to grow up and why not, as
the girl had no guidance, he insisted on seeing her and after
hesitation that poor girl accepted and I wish that she didn't as
she fell as an easy prey in the trap, after seducing her to his
house, he didn't delay in slaying her modesty using the knife of
betrayal, days passed and she is now pregnant as a result of that
sin, waiting for the moment of giving birth to have a contaminated
baby with no joy for his birth, when he was born and when her
mother discovered the shame of her daughter, she screamed from the
gravity of the shock, how could her fourteen years old virgin girl
to be pregnant and give birth to a baby?!!
She hurried to the father to
tell him about the baby but how far….
As the pigeon was slain and
her blood was bled and the result was putting that devil in jail
and the girl at one of the reform schools until they make a
decision about her, the start point was wearing the veil in a
shameful way and the end is?!!!
There is still
a door that you didn't close:
The judge "El Tanokhy" said
that an army soldier kidnapped a woman from the street and he
wanted to rape her, but some of neighbors wanted to prevent him so
he fought them and his followers helped him until the neighbors
gave up and surrendered, he took the woman inside the house and he
wanted to seduce her but she refused so he forced her but she
fought him and told him: "I'd prefer to die than doing what you
want", so he insisted and she struggled until at the end she
collapsed, and when he wanted to rape her she told him: "Hey you,
wait until you close the door that you forgot to close", he said:
"What door?", she said: "The door that is between you and God as he
can see you now", these words affected the soldier and he stepped
away from her and said: "Go, God had dispelled your worries", so
she went out without him exposing to her...
Al Watan House
Translated by Wathakker.net
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