Quranic Way of Life
Some of
the lessons learnt from Quran that apply to our general
living!
1. Respect and honour all human beings irrespective of their
religion,
colour, race, sex, language, status, property, birth,
profession/job
and so on [17/70]
2. Talk straight, to the point, without any ambiguity or
deception
[33/70]
3. Choose best words to speak and say them in the best possible
way
[17/53, 2/83]
4. Do not shout. Speak politely keeping your voice low.
[31/19]
5. Always speak the truth. Shun words that are deceitful and
ostentatious [22/30]
6. Do not confound truth with falsehood [2/42]
7. Say with your mouth what is in your heart [3/167]
8. Speak in a civilised manner in a language that is recognised by
the
society and is commonly used [4/5]
9. When you voice an opinion, be just, even if it is against
a
relative [6/152]
10. Do not be a bragging boaster [31/18]
11. Do not talk, listen or do anything vain [23/3, 28/55]
12. Do not participate in any paltry. If you pass near a futile
play,
then pass by with dignity [25/72]
13. Do not verge upon any immodesty or lewdness whether
surreptitious
or overt [6/151].
14. If, unintentionally, any misconduct occurs by you, then
correct
yourself expeditiously [3/134].
15. Do not be contemptuous or arrogant with people [31/18]
16. Do not walk haughtily or with conceit [17/37, 31/18]
17. Be moderate in thy pace [31/19]
18. Walk with humility and sedateness [25/63]
19. Keep your gazes lowered devoid of any lecherous leers and
salacious stares [24/30-31, 40/19].
20. If you do not have complete knowledge about anything, better
keep
your mouth shut. You might think that speaking about something
without
full knowledge is a trivial matter. But it might have grave
consequences [24/15-16]
21. When you hear something malicious about someone, keep a
favourable
view about him/her until you attain full knowledge about the
matter.
Consider others innocent until they are proven guilty with solid
and
truthful evidence [24/12-13]
22. Ascertain the truth of any news, lest you smite someone
in
ignorance and afterwards repent of what you did [49/6]
23. Do not follow blindly any information of which you have no
direct
knowledge. (Using your faculties of perception and conception)
you
must verify it for yourself. In the Court of your Lord, you will
be
held accountable for your hearing, sight, and the faculty of
reasoning
[17/36].
24. Never think that you have reached the final stage of knowledge
and
nobody knows more than yourself. Remember! Above everyone endowed
with
knowledge is another endowed with more knowledge [12/76]. Even
the
Prophet [p.b.u.h] was asked to keep praying, "O My sustainer!
Advance
me in knowledge." [20:114]
25. The believers are but a single Brotherhood. Live like members
of
one family, brothers and sisters unto one another [49/10].
26. Do not make mockery of others or ridicule others [49/11]
27. Do not defame others [49/11]
28. Do not insult others by nicknames [49/11]
29. Avoid suspicion and guesswork. Suspicion and guesswork
might
deplete your communal energy [49/12]
30. Spy not upon one another [49/12]
31. Do not backbite one another [49/12]
32. When you meet each other, offer good wishes and blessings
for
safety. One who conveys to you a message of safety and security
and
also when a courteous greeting is offered to you, meet it with
a
greeting still more courteous or (at least) of equal courtesy
[4/86]
33. When you enter your own home or the home of somebody
else,
compliment the inmates [24/61]
34. Do not enter houses other than your own until you have
sought
permission; and then greet the inmates and wish them a life
of
blessing, purity and pleasure [24/27]
35. Treat kindly
" Your parents
" Relatives
" The orphans
" And those who have been left alone in the society [4/36]
36. Take care of
" The needy,
" The disabled
" Those whose hard earned income is insufficient to meet their
needs
" And those whose businesses have stalled
" And those who have lost their jobs. [4/36]
37. Treat kindly
" Your related neighbours, and unrelated neighbours
" Companions by your side in public gatherings, or public
transportation. [4/36]
38. Be generous to the needy wayfarer, the homeless son of the
street,
and the one who reaches you in a destitute condition [4/36]
39. Be nice to people who work under your care. [4/36]
40. Do not follow up what you have given to others to afflict
them
with reminders of your generosity [2/262].
41. Do not expect a return for your good behaviour, not even
thanks
[76/9]
42. Cooperate with one another in good deeds and do not cooperate
with
others in evil and bad matters [5/2]
43. Do no try to impress people on account of self-proclaimed
virtues
[53/32]
44. You should enjoin right conduct on others but mend your own
ways
first. Actions speak louder than words. You must first practice
good
deeds yourself, then preach [2/44]
45. Correct yourself and your families first [before trying to
correct
others] [66/6]
46. Pardon gracefully if anyone among you who commits a bad deed
out
of ignorance, and then repents and amends [6/54, 3/134]
47. Divert and sublimate your anger and potentially virulent
emotions
to creative energy, and become a source of tranquillity and comfort
to
people [3/134]
48. Call people to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and
beautiful
exhortation. Reason with them most decently [16/125]
49. Leave to themselves those who do not give any importance to
the
Divine code and have adopted and consider it as mere play and
amusement [6/70]
50. Sit not in the company of those who ridicule Divine Law
unless
they engage in some other conversation [4/140]
51. Do not be jealous of those who are blessed [4/54]
52. In your collective life, make rooms for others [58/11]
53. When invited to dine, Go at the appointed time. Do not arrive
too
early to wait for the preparation of meal or linger after eating
to
engage in bootless babble. Such things may cause inconvenience to
the
host [33/53]
54. Eat and drink [what is lawful] in moderation [7/31].
55. Do not squander your wealth senselessly [17/26]
56. Fulfil your promises and commitments [17/34]
57. Keep yourself clean, pure [9/108, 4/43, 5/6].
58. Dress-up in agreeable attire and adorn yourself with
exquisite
character from inside out [7/26]
59. Seek your provision only by fair endeavour [29/17, 2/188]
60. Do not devour the wealth and property of others unjustly,
nor
bribe the officials or the judges to deprive others of their
possessions [2/188]
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